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V3 Sneak Peek + Intern Reminder!

August 17, 2010 by Southern Weddings in Main,News | 7 comments

Howdy, folks!

We hope your work week is off to a great start, and that you are taking full advantage of our last month of summer.  Your friendly SW gals are hard at work on the next issue, and we can’t wait for its unveiling in October!

You might remember back in July when we took a little office field trip to Wilmington last July to visit our friend and photographer extraordinaire, Millie Holloman, for a SW photo shoot.  One roundtrip, several hours and more than a few outfit changes later, we had one bomb.com set of pictures!  We’ll be unveiling the rest of the images in V3, but we wanted to leave you with a fun teaser and one of our very faves.

Miz Millie put together a few more on her blog.  Make sure you check out the all-around Southern cuteness, and be sure to tell us which series you like best!

Intern Call: Last, but certainly not least, we want to remind all you North Carolina gals that we’re still looking for college interns to help us out in the fall.  Interested in working with me, L + E as we prepare for the massively awesome SW V3 to drop?  Send me a copy of your resume and cover letter!

SW Love,
Katharine 

 

xo Southern Weddings August 17, 2010 | view Southern Weddings's blog
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Gina Z, August 17, 2010 6:29 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Katharine ::

Where did you get that dress?? I love it! Can't freakin wait for V3!

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Southern Weddings, August 17, 2010 6:38 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Truth, Gina? I found the dress at Wal-Mart (for $10!) circa 2007. Ohhh yeahhh! Katharine @ Southern Weddings

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kristy, August 17, 2010 7:06 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

HOW CUTE!! Love you and your candy!! So precious!

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Megan, August 17, 2010 10:45 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I absolutely love these photos and this fabulous website. (It's my homepage!) I have to know where to find the blue dress with the ruffles annnnd the one Whitney wore with the black belt!

This is a fabulous site girls. Can't wait to see the new magazine.

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Southern Weddings, August 17, 2010 11:06 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Thank you so much, Megan! My dress (the blue ruffled one) is actually from Victoria's Secret. It doesn't look like it's on the site anymore, but you might try eBay! The one with the black belt was actually worn by Lara -- I'll let her fill you in on the source!

Emily @ SW

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Katrina, August 18, 2010 4:41 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I'm so glad I'm not the only one to LOVE your dresses! And the preview of the photoshoot only got me more excited for V3!
47 days!

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Bryan, August 20, 2010 8:35 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Great shot from Millie :) I can't wait for the new Jose Villa shoot in V3!

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Southern Etiquette :: Clapping at the Recessional

 

Hi friends!  Last time on Southern Etiquette we went over a few key maid of honor responsibilities.  Check out the comment section — you guys had some great suggestions as to how a maid can not only fulfill her basic duties, but go above and beyond.  Y’all are sweet!

This week I have a funny little question for you.  It seems like such a small thing in the grand scheme of a wedding, but I’m wondering how you feel.  It’s about clapping at the end of a wedding ceremony, as the recessional music swells and the bride and groom kiss, then trot back up the aisle in wedded bliss.  Do you do it?  Do you not do it? 

Image by Kate Murphy.  See more from this sweet wedding on Once Wed here!

Here’s what Emily Post has to say:

“Religious and secular ceremonies sometimes end with the guests clapping for the couple when the officiant introduces them to the guest assembly.  The applause should be initiated by someone who knows the couple’s preference, and the guests should follow that lead.  Otherwise, don’t clap.”

I’ve always wanted people to clap at the end of the ceremony.  It seems so celebratory!  Plus, it seems (to me) kind of awkward to do the big kiss in front of a silent room.  Music and clapping to accompany the kiss?  So much better!  I guess this means I’ll be alerting my friends and family to my wishes. This being said, I would never start the clapping at a wedding where I wasn’t sure how the couple felt.

What do y’all think — do you want clapping at the end of your ceremony?  Do you want just music?  Are you planning to “seed the audience” to get the reaction you’re hoping for?  Let me know!

All header images c/o Millie Holloman

xo Southern Weddings August 17, 2010 | view Southern Weddings's blog
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A, August 17, 2010 1:41 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I think clapping should be mandatory! It's so weird when the couple is announced, the music plays, and everyone kind of walks out awkwardly. LIke when do we show that we're happy? I feel like clapping marks achievement and celebration!

From a photo standpoint, the pictures of the couple and the attendants recessing are ALWAYS better when the guests are clapping and cheering. When the guests are silent, the bride and groom and attendants walk out with subdued if not stone faced expressions. When everyone claps or cheers, everyone walks out with a big smile on their face! Makes better pictures :-)

If you can't clap and cheer at a wedding, when can you? It's supposed to happy!

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kaity, August 17, 2010 2:21 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

DEFINITELY clapping and music! it's such a happy moment!

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Ben Finch, August 17, 2010 2:22 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Good post Emily! I say go for it! It seems appropriate, after all, it is such a wonderful moment & would seem a pity to not be able to express excitement toward the couple. I am frequently asked by brides on their wedding day, "should I smile for this picture?" I always respond, "It's your wedding day, of course you should!!"

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Stacy Reeves, August 17, 2010 2:22 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Definitely clap. Every bride deserves to be applauded :)

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Grace, August 17, 2010 2:43 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I come from a religious background and all the weddings I ever attended ended with cheers, whistles and applause (a standing ovation, really) from the moment the couple kisses til the entire bridal party has walked back down the aisle. I've never seen it done any other way and I really enjoy the celebratory mood it evokes-- essentially an overflow of love and affirmation for the marriage that took place. I guess I'm fortunate that my friends and family all will do this without me having to hint at my preference at all.

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Little Miss Wonderful, August 17, 2010 2:53 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

For a more casual ceremony, it's fine. However I wanted a more formal feel and our ceremony was in a formal church setting, so to avoid the applause, I instructed the organist to hit it BIG - immediately after the priest said, "I now present to you, Mr. and Mrs. Wonderful" - We also had the groomsmen "bow-out" the pews, after the wedding party and mothers had recessed, therefore not leaving anyone standing around. When we entered the reception - THAT was the time for cheering and applause. . . thank you very much.

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Lynn, August 17, 2010 2:57 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Such a funny question, but I would have never have though of it except for what happened at my wedding. I had a rough morning of my wedding day (crazy weather, crazy vendors), but I was so shocked when my dad and I headed towards the aisle, ALL my guest stood up and started clapping like crazy as I walked down. It really was shocking and so wonderful and I felt like everyone was celebrating such an amazing day. I started smiling so big! And then the same thing happened after we kissed and did our recessional. Our guests clapped for us and all our bridal party. It really was so wonderful. I don't know who iniated it, but I'm so glad they did!

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Emily, August 17, 2010 3:17 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

YES!! I think it would be just awkward to kiss and walk out in silence, well with music of course. But if people aren't clapping, it would have me a bit worried whether they were happy for us or not. :) So at my wedding, I hope there will be a boisterous applause!

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Amy, August 17, 2010 7:33 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I knew I wanted clapping, but I didn't let anyone know that. And in all honesty, I didn't even know that people clapped. I only knew when we got the pictures back and we could see everyone clapping with huge smiles on their face. We chose a really different song to walk out to as well. We had a musical friend play Tom Petty's "Wildflowers" on the acoustic guitar. We had so many compliments about how sweet it was.

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Emily, August 17, 2010 7:43 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Clapping and shouting are a must! It's such a happy moment and people should be excited. On a side note I really hate when I see wedding photos where the congregation is seated as the bride and groom walk out! Am I the only person who thinks that a standing ovation as the bride and groom exit is a necessity?

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Little Miss Wonderful, August 17, 2010 10:11 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Actually, the correct form of etiquette states that the congregation stands when the bride enters the church and remains seated during the recessional. Only performances warrant a "standing ovation" not a ceremony. (Unless not running away counts as a major achievement).
Clapping, stomping, hooting, hollering- whatever the bride wants lends a personal touch. My cousin's wedding actually elicited a few "yee-haa's" and "roll tide's". Alas, it's a do-as-you-please era. Just smile and join in.

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Real North Carolina Wedding: Andrea + Michael, Part II

Andrea + Michael welcomed guests at the Greensboro Country Club, and I have to say the venue couldn’t have been more perfect for their Hollywood-inspired soiree.  (As a matter of fact, I think Miss Seymour’s first picture of the couple’s getaway car in front of the reception venue sums up the evening quite nicely.)  Botannica styled the understated blooms, and aptly-named Delicious Bakery designed A + M’s dramatic four-tiered wedding cake.  I’ll admit that I spent more than a few minutes perusing Abigail Seymour’s blog post of the evening, and it was well worth it.  Just saying.  

See all the photos from Andrea + Michael’s wedding in their Real Wedding Gallery!

Tell us about finding your wedding dress: After trying on about 10 dresses at a local boutique I was pretty much sold on a very “fashion forward” dress.  My mom wasn’t convinced it was the one, so we made an appointment at one other boutique, Hayden Olivia in Charlotte, NC.  I tried on about five dresses and when I put on the sixth dress, I pretty much knew it was meant for me!  While I love all things fashion, I am much more of a classic and traditional gal, so the simple silhouette of my Platinum by Priscilla of Boston dress was perfect for our classic and timeless wedding.
Describe your wedding flowers: Fabulous! I LOVED the flowers that Cindy at Botannica arranged for the wedding.  My bouquet and my bridesmaid’s bouquets were absolute perfection – my mostly cream/white bouquet had hints of pale pink and peach while my girls carried more vibrant “fluffy” flowers in pink and peach.  At the reception we chose to do a mix of high and low arrangements.  Again, Cindy hit a home run with the beautiful flowers in pinks, peaches, greens and creams all accented with clusters of pearls!
Describe your wedding cake: Our baker did an amazing job creating the traditional tiered confection I envisioned!  The crisp white tiers were accented with sugar pearls.  Between each tier were bunches of gorgeous pink, peach and cream flowers.  Our cake flavors, Strawberry Cream Torte and “Margaritaville,” were to die for!  In fact, I’d kill for a piece right now!
What was your most memorable moment about your wedding day? The most memorable moment was our reenactment of Michael’s infamous “first date handshake” on the altar before our first kiss as a married couple.  We’re certainly romantic, but we also know how to have a little fun!  Most everyone in the crowd knew our first date story so it made for a great laugh!
What’s next for you as a couple?  What are you looking forward to in the future?  Michael and I currently live in Washington, DC where we plan on staying for the next few years while we build our careers.  We love to travel and plan on doing as much as possible!  Most importantly, we’re just enjoying being together and experiencing each day as husband and wife!

Congratulations, Andrea + Michael!  Enjoy your time in the capital city!

xo Katharine August 16, 2010 | view Katharine's blog
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Two Ring Studios, August 16, 2010 6:21 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I think Abigail Seymour is one of the best photogs in the industry. What an amazing looking wedding! -Derek

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Katie B, August 16, 2010 7:19 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I wonder which one went to Elon? My Alma Mater! This wedding is georgeous. I remember seeing her Bridal portaits a while back and thinking, wow, she looks just like Grace Kelley!!!

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Elizabeth @ Dapper Paper, August 16, 2010 7:26 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

oh the Krispy Kreme! That is SO adorable! (we did Dunkin Donuts coffee and munchkins) Great idea, gorgeous wedding!

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Brit @ Landlocked Bride, August 16, 2010 9:01 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Loving the details land those little flags. And, the send away donuts! So cute!

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Young Sophisticates, August 16, 2010 9:01 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Gorgeous!!! Love these photos.

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bridal girll, August 17, 2010 3:49 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

the pictures are so beautiful. I love the Krispy Kreme favors. Love the donuts myself! Wish could have a box!

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Carolina Wedding, August 18, 2010 9:04 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Seems a perfect wedding, couples are looking gorgeous in the wedding dress and seems that they have enjoyed a lot. As Carolina is always being the best place for wedding , that was obvious that this wedding to be perfect too.

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Margaret, August 19, 2010 9:56 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

An absolutely beautiful couple. Their storybook wedding is perfectly captured by Abigail Seymour. Would love to see more!!

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Dennis @ Wholesale Roses, August 20, 2010 12:28 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

The family tree is terrific! Everyone looks like they are having a great time.

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Jamie, August 25, 2010 8:36 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Loved every detail of this. The setting, so formal and elegant...every element is exquisite, resulting in a lovely, lovely event.

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Real North Carolina Wedding: Andrea + Michael, Part I

Sometimes I wanna hug Emily Ayer.  Seriously.  I’m pretty sure she picks weddings because she knows I will go crazy over them.  She just loves me that much – or at least that’s what I tell myself.  Take Andrea + Mike’s wedding from Abigail Seymour, for instance: a dramatic venue (Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church), a stunning jewel-encrusted gown (Priscilla of Boston, naturally), subtly-vintage lavender accents (Banana Republic frocks for the lovely ‘maids)… what’s not to love?  The bride wore a traditional cathedral veil from Jennifer Leigh and ultra-feminine heels from Shannon Britt.  My favorite detail, though?  Em + I both agree that this gorgeous bride is a definite (and lucky!) Grace Kelly look-alike.  Check back soon for part II!

How did the two of you meet?  Tell us your story: The Public Interest Law Society at Michael’s law school held a tennis tournament as a fundraiser.  As a member of the society, Michael had signed up to play in the tournament with his friend, Jeff. Over at the school’s main campus, my sorority recruited girls who wanted to participate in this tournament.  I decided to enter as part of a double’s team with my fellow sorority sister, Lindsay. On the day of the tournament, I was feeling less than excited about getting up early to play tennis on a Saturday. At the last minute, Lindsay and I decided to skip it, thinking the show would go on without us. Turns out one of my other sorority sisters was helping to organize the event and ended up calling us non-stop until we finally put on our tennis gear and drove over to the courts.  

After playing and winning our first two matches, Lindsay and I reached the championship match.  As fate would have it, Michael and Jeff were our opponents.  A few aces (and really nice volleys) later, we had won the tournament championship. Organizers had assumed the second place team would be women and the tournament would be won by men.  The prize packages matched this assumption, since the second place prize was a cute bag tilled with socks, headbands and other women’s gear.  Lindsay and I graciously accepted the “girly” prize and handed over our would-be prize of restaurant gift certificates and movie passes to the guys. I was already interested in getting to know Michael better so I hinted (not so subtly) that the guys should use those restaurant certificates to take “the real winners” out to dinner. The subsequent double date was a little awkward and Michael ended it in a very businesslike manner by shaking my hand! (Never had that happen on a date before!)

The spark was there, though, and Michael asked me out again.  We ended up saying “I do” on June 19th, and Jeff and Lindsay stood with us as part of our wedding party!

Describe the proposal. I had just returned from a semester abroad in London and was excited about being home with my family and Michael. While I was abroad, Michael had asked my parents for their blessing and had told them he wanted the proposal to be a complete surprise.  They made a plan that started with a family dinner. My parents made reservations at a nice restaurant and everyone got dressed up and, as planned, drove separate cars there.

When we arrived back home, I noticed luminaries lining the entire circular driveway, forming a path to the front door. Michael led me into a house filled with flickering candles of all shapes and sizes.  Michael had even arranged for our favorite songs to be playing as we walked in.  Sitting beside the Christmas tree was a bouquet of roses and a box wrapped with sage green paper and tied with a cream-colored bow. It was a book filled with pictures from our many dates and our courtship. The final page of the book had only a picture of a ring box with the words “December 12, 2008 is a night we will never forget… It is the night I asked you to marry me. I love you.”  Michael reached for the ring box that he had hidden beneath the Christmas tree, got down on one knee, and asked me to be his wife.  I was so surprised, and excitedly said YES!

Three adjectives that describe the day are: Unforgettable, timeless and lovely!

xo Katharine August 16, 2010 | view Katharine's blog
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Blackcarat, August 16, 2010 2:51 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

What beautiful wedding photos. All the best for the future.

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Juliet, August 16, 2010 3:20 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

GORGEOUS!!!!!!! Abigail is amazing. :D

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gigi, August 17, 2010 6:43 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Beautiful images of a remarkable wedding

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Patricia Frederick, August 18, 2010 12:33 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I attended this wedding and It was the most beautiful wedding I have ever attended. Absolutely gorgeous Bride and Bridal party! Endless attention to detail!

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Emily, August 19, 2010 10:03 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Oh so pretty...gorgeeous images and wonderful images of every exquisite detail.

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Calling all Brides and Wedding Pros :: Get Your Quote in V3!

August 13, 2010 by Southern Weddings in Contests | 73 comments

One of our favorite photo friends, Nate, twittered this today: A perfect example of how to not ever get featured on a wedding blog or get referrals from a floristlink to the above floral destruction.”  Proven wrong.  This is the joy we wish every bride would have on her wedding day!  Don’t take anything too seriously, y’all.  Lurve it.

OK, we digress. Back to biz.

We want YOU in V3!  Brides, wedding planners, photographers, stationers, designers, mothers-of-the-bride, wedding flautists (?), bakers and bridesmaids: it’s your turn to sound off for a chance to be quoted in a special feature in our next print edition!

By commenting on this post, you agree to let us publish your words in print. Capiche? Leave as many quotes as you like, and a handful of you will be chosen for print!  Please be sure to comment with a valid email address so we can contact you to confirm your quote. 

BONUS GIVEAWAY: five lucky random commenters will get the first copies of V3 hot off the press!  So, break out the sweet tea and give us your best, y’all!

Tell us why you love southern weddings. (Not us… although we love the love… tell us why you love weddings in the South.)

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Amanda McMahon, August 13, 2010 5:28 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Weddings in the south are unlike any other. They are full of charm, color, and many un-traditional elements that just make the day come even more to life. Not to mention, the people in the south just full of energy and so hospitable! I love the weddings in the south because they are not only about the couple, they are about the love of family and life....and there's nothing better than that!

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Ashley, August 13, 2010 5:29 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love Southern weddings because of the romance they seem to exude. Pretty much every Southern wedding I've seen also seems to be laid back, but still elegantly gorgeous. Perfect romance!

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drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co., August 13, 2010 5:36 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Words from the daughter & wedding planner of a Southern Mom
We ♥ Southern Weddings as they are the true Essence of “LOVE”. The details can’t go wrong when you have the 5~F’s Family, Friends and Fabulous down home southern Food. It’s your dream fairytale Southern Wedding; don’t under estimate the south we can do FABULOUS too.

Kimberly Clark
Wedding & Event Producer

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drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co., August 13, 2010 5:36 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Words from the daughter & wedding planner of a Southern Mom
We ♥ Southern Weddings as they are the true Essence of “LOVE”. The details can’t go wrong when you have the 5~F’s Family, Friends and Fabulous down home southern Food. It’s your dream fairytale Southern Wedding; don’t under estimate the south we can do FABULOUS too.

Kimberly Clark
Wedding & Event Producer

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drezrehersal Event Planning & Lifestyle Co., August 13, 2010 5:36 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Words from the daughter & wedding planner of a Southern Mom
We ♥ Southern Weddings as they are the true Essence of “LOVE”. The details can’t go wrong when you have the 5~F’s Family, Friends and Fabulous down home southern Food. It’s your dream fairytale Southern Wedding; don’t under estimate the south we can do FABULOUS too.

Kimberly Clark
Wedding & Event Producer

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Kristin, August 13, 2010 5:56 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings celebrate love in a completely unique way. It's got that "relaxed on the porch" vibe complimented with some "Gone With The Wind" romance. It's the perfect mix of comfort and elegance. It's what we do, y'all ;)

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Sydney Dawbarn-Robinson, August 13, 2010 5:58 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

A Southern wedding is not just an event, it is an affair! It is a time to gather with your friends and family and celebrate love with an ice cold mason jar of sweet tea in hand; you can't just do that anywhere ya'll.

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Ty Swartz, August 13, 2010 6:00 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings have the charm that inspire lovers to dream from the beaches to the amazing southern homes. Each wedding I photograph reminds me of how perfect life is when we relax and spend time with the ones we love. You become part of the emotional joy others are willing to share with you.

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Cassandra Cherneski, August 13, 2010 6:03 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Let's face it. Southern Weddings are some of the most charming, stylish, and imaginative celebrations on the planet. From mason jars to mint julep cups, wide-open grassy fields to secluded country chapels, from the piedmont to the coast, Southern Weddings epitomize everything that is beautiful about the South. And the best Southern weddings will leave guests feeling comforted, amused, and filled with even more love for the couple they came to celebrate.

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Brit, August 13, 2010 6:03 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

The true hospitality of the event. At a Southern Wedding, you can always count on having a good time, feeling welcomed and love, and truly feeling as if you are a part of the soiree.

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Crystal, August 13, 2010 6:09 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern brides are sassy, classy and fabulous. Every time I have the opportunity to meet a new couple I feel like I am meeting new friends. I love the South and Southern weddings.

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Claire, August 13, 2010 6:10 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings have an unmistakable charm to them that no other geographical wedding has. Weddings in the south have such rich history behind them and they represent decades and decades of tradition. What I also love about southern weddings is how they make you feel. Going to a wedding in the south, you know you are going to be welcomed with open arms, open hearts and amazing southern hospitality. The food is down-home comfort, the drinks are sweet to keep you cool and you can count on the men holding the door for you and the women being superbly dressed. To me, the represent an era that is long forgotten everywhere else.

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Jill B, August 13, 2010 6:21 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Arnold Palmers, fried chicken, East Carolina BBQ and homemade cole slaw. Yum.

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Megan Floyd, August 13, 2010 6:25 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

(My 3-year-old just stole my sweet tea AND told me he wants to watch dinosaurs on the computer. *sigh*)

Southern weddings are about following solid tradition while knowing where to bend - or actually break - the rules. Why is the best sweet tea in the South? Because true Southerners know when to add extra sugar, some blackberries and an orange slice and when to leave the pitcher alone. There's a wealth of entertaining knowledge and hospitality in the South that allows for a melding with customs and trends from the rest of the world without losing our own identity.

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Carlee Sizemore, August 13, 2010 6:34 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

It’s marrying on your family farm, surrounded by cicadas and your sorority sisters. It’s wearing a wedding veil that has been passed down for generations and toasting to a new life with the champagne of the south. It’s making a grand get-away in a beat up old Chevy truck. It’s a wedding in the South, y’all! What’s not to love?

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Regina Williams, August 13, 2010 6:39 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Location, Location, Location. Whether it is a country church, an elegant southern garden, or a rustic barn and pasture, your wedding style can be paired effortlessly to these locations.

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suz, August 13, 2010 6:58 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

A little bit of country, a lot of class, and just a touch of sass!

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Leslie, August 13, 2010 7:19 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are all about southern culture! Seersucker & sweet tea, mint juleps in mason jars, bow ties and BBQ dinners, pound cake and peaches!

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Sharise, August 13, 2010 7:46 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are all about family, joining the bride and grooms family as one. Southerners celebrate with a relaxed, sophisticated charm that is unique to the southern states. I {heart} southern weddings!

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Meghan Legaux, August 13, 2010 8:10 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

What's not to love about a southern wedding? Red velvet, cake pulls, second lines, mint juleps, sweating mercilessly during the months of April - September... the South is one of a kind and our weddings are gorgeous!

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Megan, August 13, 2010 9:47 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

A good wedding brings out the best in people - from the couple, to their families, friends, and whole community. On any given day, Southerners celebrate family, faith, fun, and food - so it's no wonder that a Southern Wedding brings together the best of all these!

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Polished Wedding Planning, August 13, 2010 10:15 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are SO. MUCH. FUN. They are beautiful, sophisticated and glamorous and, of course, rich with tradition. They are formal and classy but not uptight which is a very delicate line to walk!

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Lauren @ Every Last Detail, August 13, 2010 11:47 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Ah, southern weddings- they're so many things, all wrapped up in one, but most of all, they're about southern hospitality. Southern weddings aren't just one day, they're a whole weekend of eating, drinking, and spending time with loved ones. You can just feel the love and happiness in a room, and it completely surrounds you.
Southern brides and grooms are about style, but also comfort, and fun. It's reflected in the details- from signature drinks served in mason jars to flip flops for the after party, I guarantee a southern wedding is hands down going to be one of the best weddings you've been to!

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Whitney, August 14, 2010 2:32 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are about life, love, family, attention to detail and the simple way of life. What more could you want on the biggest day of your life?

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Cynthia Kain, August 14, 2010 3:16 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are one of a kind - while each bride is unique, all southern weddings flourish with love. Southern weddings are romantic and full of little details. Southern weddings are down to earth. My favorite part of photographing a southern weddings (besides the fabulous details of bow ties, mason jars & gorgeous flowers, etc) is the ceremony...specifically the vows. Now matter how many weddings I attend, no matter what the budget, no matter how big or how small, southern wedding vows are the best. They remain traditional with hints of the couple's personal touches. Hearing the vows makes me think of my husband, our wedding day & reminds me what weddings are all about - it makes my heart smile. Simply put, southern weddings are genuine & filled with love.

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Daniel Chee, August 14, 2010 6:52 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love southern weddings because the people don't look at you funny when you talk about an engagement session... because the bride AND her guests will kick off their shoes for a hoe-down throw-down... because a true southern belle's voice will make you giggle inside... and maybe, if you are lucky,you will get to marvel at (and then devour) a mashed-potato bar.

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Laura H., August 14, 2010 3:42 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

What is a Southern Wedding?
It starts with having Daddy walk you down the center aisle of the church while Momma stands with the first chord of Trumpet Voluntary to sneak the first peak of her pride and joy. Its meaning what you say in the vow cermeony. Its carrying on traditions from wearing great grandmother's veil to the groom bearing great grandfather's name. Its joining two families with sweet tea, peonies, mashed potatoes, one heck of a bride's cake, and the Alabama fight song. Its leaving in an old blue and white Ford truck with Just Married on the windows and it ends with Happily Ever After.

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Sergio, August 14, 2010 4:47 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love Southern weddings because it's all about Family. Family and community are the center of Southern weddings, the way it should be. Plus, the food is great :)

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Brittany, August 14, 2010 4:49 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are one-of-a-kind affairs that exude love, life, romance, simpleness, family and food. Each is unique but every has that special sparkle that you know it's a Southern affair. You can't go wrong with a Southern wedding.

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Janna, August 14, 2010 9:03 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

As I've planned what I would consider our southern wedding- I loved that I did not have to follow all the rules. The reason I love southern weddings is can include all the traditions of the past that our parents did at their weddings, but can also have the twists to make it much more of an "us" affair! From the corn fritters and fried okra appetizers to the family recipe dessert buffet to the surprise mariachi band in honor of my hispanic heritage as well! The mix of all the family and friends gathered together to be there with us on our special day to the amazing food and unforgettable fun is what makes our Southern Wedding a day we will never forget!

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Mel, August 14, 2010 10:47 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love SW Mag! I'm constantly visiting your site for inspiration :)

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Rachel, August 15, 2010 1:44 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

It's all about love. Love of family, love of God, love of country, love of details, love of food. So much love that I usually walk away from Southern weddings with not just clients, but friends.

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Alexandra, August 15, 2010 11:29 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I'm originally from New York City and moved to Charleston almost 4 years ago. I recently got engaged and I'm planning my wedding at Boone Hall Plantation for October of 2011. I'm EXTREMELY happy to have my wedding in the South...why? Weddings in the South are so much more relaxed and informal. No one will make comments about having a buffet rather than a formal sit-down. Want to have a backyard wedding...fine! What about a barn...even better! It's also about community. It's almost expected to ask your friends for help or accessories to use at a wedding.

I can't wait for my day. My friends from the North will have a TOTALLY different experience than what they are used too (ie...$300 a plate of rubber chicken at a stuffy ballroom with no windows in mid-town Manhattan)
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Christinalouvierre.com, August 15, 2010 3:41 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I think it all started with "bashful and blush" Steel Magnolias made me want a southern wedding for me as a child. Its beauty, characters, charm and romance. Its trials, triumph and a red velvet cake how can it get any better than that!

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neal carpenter, August 15, 2010 5:00 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southerners will brave 103 degree temperatures and 100% humidity with a SMILE to watch a couple become one.

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Bethany Ann, August 15, 2010 5:01 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

As a Southern Wedding Photographer and Bride, I have discovered that Southern Weddings never get old. Even the vintage style weddings are so modern and fresh. Every detail is accounted for in a Southern Wedding, and that's why so many brides, Southern or not, decide to have a Southern Wedding. I am so excited to have my own Southern Wedding!

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Nicole Scott-Tate, August 15, 2010 11:50 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

When I think about southern weddings, I think about the charm of outdoor garden, winery, or farm weddings. The ladies are using hand fans or under the shade of parasols to get a little relief from the sun. The ceremony and reception sites are full of beautiful flowers such as magnolias and hydrangeas. You are sure to see a mason jar either as part of the decor or as a glass for some sweet tea or lemonade. Guests enjoy a big dose of southern hospitality as they eat comfort food and listen to great music. What southern wedding would be complete without a groom's cake? All of these things and so much more....are why I love southern weddings!

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Tiffany Pennington, August 16, 2010 1:06 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Hospitality, beauty and tradition define the South. Southern weddings are the perfect example of these three characteristics meeting. If you aren't from the South, come to a wedding here. You'll quickly fall in love.

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Betty, August 16, 2010 2:30 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

The best thing about a Southern wedding is that it can be whatever you want it to be. Big or small. Casual or fancy.Indoors or out. Buffet or seated dinner. There are no rules. Of course, in my day....almost 30 years ago....there were a few rules; you did have to match your mints and punch to the bridesmaid dresses and their shoes (closed toe pumps, of course) had to be dyed also. And why did I make my bridesmaids all wear bee-hive do's.....some were barely recognizable! Thank goodness we've moved past "matchy matchy." When my daughter marries next May, there will be short dresses, all kinds of hair do's and shoes, paper flowers, lots of milk galss..... and no mints. Family and friends. Beautiful expressions of love. Dancing. It will be just what she and her fiancee want it to be.

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Lynn @ Heels Above Weddings, August 16, 2010 2:03 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Even though I live on the East Coast now, I will never, ever be able to give up the southerner in me. I love our weddings because they are full of fun and love. Southern weddings aren't being about being pretentious. It's about sharing that special moment with your family and friends. You can have a waltz one minute and a square dance the next! They have that simplicity about them that just exudes greatness!

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Jeana, August 16, 2010 2:08 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love the warmth and intimate feel of southern weddings. It doesn't matter how many people you invite it still just feels like a party with your family and friends, not like a show! Love southern weddings!

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Jessica, August 16, 2010 3:07 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are a drop of sunshine... even when the weather's not ideal!

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Jessica, August 16, 2010 3:29 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Simply two little words... Sweet tea!

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Christopher Confero, August 16, 2010 6:47 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Weddings in the South are kind and simple yet big and boisterous. Above all, Southern weddings are tradition. For today's belle's and beau's, it's about combining those meaningful traditions with a "good ole' helping" of individual personality.

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Rachel S. Williams, August 16, 2010 8:28 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Weddings in the South are like everything else we do a round here...BIG and full of hospitality! Weddings are an occasion for the whole town to come together and the Mother of the Bride to get to show of the hosting skills she has been honing for the last 50 plus years. They are charming, romantic, and fun down to the very last detail. Weddings in the South are not an event, they are a tradition and a way of life!

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Kristen Steele, August 17, 2010 2:49 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

A Southern wedding can be so many different things: a backyard picnic affair in flip-flops or a black-tie dinner at the Country Club, but one thing that transcends all Southern weddings is the love and grace of the Bride & Groom. A Southern wedding is a jolly celebration of two families joining together, which just may include mint juleps, lots of pearls, a war of SEC fight songs, elaborate groom's cakes, mason jars, and fabulous flowers.

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Melissa Nickle, August 17, 2010 6:46 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern charm: while I may technically be a westerner, I am no stranger to the term! I come from a rich Southern heritage where roots run deep, and not too many moons ago, my humble abode sat nestled in the midst of my beloved South (it was a most sublime time of my thus far life).

Let me lay it out pure and simple: there is an air, ambiance, and essence unique to a southern wedding that (despite our best-west efforts) can not be duplicated! Perhaps mimicked, perhaps inspired by, but never duplicated.

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Shannon, August 18, 2010 1:18 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

One word: Grandmas! There is nothing in the world like a southern Grandma. They are truly the matriarch of a southern family and a breed you do not find anywhere else in this country. Love. Them.

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Erika, August 19, 2010 4:16 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern girls are brought up to be brides. The details, fashion and exquisite photography in Southern Weddings Magazine is a perfect example of how well these brides have planned. All of them are executed flawlessly.

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Michelle Bowman, August 19, 2010 4:20 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

What I love about Southern Weddings is the hospitality of the people. Here in the south everyone threats you as if you are a friend. Its so great that I actually become friends with many of the couples we photograph.

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Stacey Fitts, August 19, 2010 4:33 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I'm thinking about setting up shop in The South, just so I can experience the wonderfulness of a true Southern wedding! We try to emulate them in the west, but it's never quite the same.

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Meredith Zeller, August 19, 2010 5:23 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

A Southern wedding is the perfect balance class, elegance, warmth and hospitality. At every wedding I have attended (as a planner or a guest) in the South, I was welcomed like a member of the family. No matter how formal the event, the feeling of southern hospitality is at the heart of every Southern wedding.

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Ashley Brockinton, August 19, 2010 5:24 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Why We Love Southern Weddings: Brides are not afriad to put their personality into the wedding. They are a good mix of tradition and out of the ordinary style. You can't get better than the outdoors, especially in the south.

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Valerie Metrejean, August 19, 2010 5:39 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern Weddings are all about big guest lists. Why? Because a Southern bride and groom see their big day as more than a sacred act. They see it as a celebration of that act and they wouldn't think of excluding anyone they know from the festivities! Southern hospitality at it's finest.

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loveoverlogic.com, August 19, 2010 6:44 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

the best southern wedding we've ever attended was in michigan!! ~ A bride from Georgia and a groom from Cali made for one great Southern Wedding in the midwest!

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Latrice, August 19, 2010 10:13 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love Southern Weddings because they represent simplicity with pops of fabulousness, charm & sophistication, family & lots of love. Southern brides believe in family tradition but are sassy enough to also create new traditions on their wedding day!

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Emily, August 20, 2010 1:34 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love Southern weddings because of two words- family and love! And a little dose of that indescribable Southern charm :)

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Ashley Baber, August 20, 2010 6:03 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are steeped in rich tradition. They are romantic and heart-felt. Southern hospitality makes each guest feel as though they are right at home. Family, friends, food and sweet tea are plentiful. Laughter and joy fill the space like the warm Southern air. Stunning settings such as coastal beaches and plantations are commonplace There is just nothing quite like the charm and charisma of a Southern wedding...

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Lindsay, August 20, 2010 8:45 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love Southern weddings because of the ease, charm, and uniqueness of each one. Southern weddings are seeped with tradition and meaningful touches. From wearing your mother's pearls to carrying a grandmother's hankerchief, I think the South relishes these touches. The focus is on two families joining as one and just general "good ole" southern fellowship with friends. Oh and of course you can't forget the food and forever charming Southern hospitality.

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Kate Miller Events, August 21, 2010 3:23 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are all about the experience - sharing the life, love and happiness with all of your guests. Hospitality in the South truly leaves no stone unturned and this sentiment is reflected into every single detail, from a cold mint julep on a hot summer day to a monogrammed blanket on a cold winter night.

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Marletha Booker, August 23, 2010 3:40 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Without a doubt the best thing about Southern weddings is the food! Couples who serve their favorite comfort foods ensure that they love the food, and display their personaliites. With so many items indigenous to the South it's easy to appease everyone's appetites. Need some examples to make your mouth water? I thought so. Put a spin on fried green tomatoes by serving them on mini biscuits with remoulade sauce, or serve grit cakes topped with shrimp and red eye gravy. Don't forget to include the fried macaroni and cheese or the peach tea to wash it all down!

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A Day To Remember, August 23, 2010 7:41 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love Southern weddings because of grooms get to have their own cake!

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Kelly, August 23, 2010 7:42 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are pastels, bow ties, tradition, hospitality, family values, & always full of charm.

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Kelly Cummings, August 23, 2010 7:43 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I love hearing Sweet Home Alabama at every reception. I'm not from Alabama, I moved here from NC, but having married an Alabama fan and become one myself, the interjected "Roll Tide Roll" joined into the chorus is pretty smile inducing.

And of course the food.

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A Day To Remember, August 23, 2010 7:50 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings are the epitome of family traditions, great food, BUTTER CREAM icing on the wedding cake and sweet tea!

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Amy Wood, August 23, 2010 8:08 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

A Southern Wedding oozes style and grace, no matter who the couple is. Weddings in the south are a big deal because each one is purely different in taste, color, style, size, and location, and season. Each couple chooses details that represent their courtship, their romance, or their individual tastes, and they go all out to share their passions (Hello, Carolina & Clemson)! Traditions from decades ago are passed down through families, and the best moments captured at every wedding are the father and daughter first dance. From city weddings in the winter to beach weddings in the summer, one thing remains the same- friends and family are in abundance of attendees. There are often 8+ bridesmaids and groomsmen because down here, we simply can't choose between such close friends- so he have to choose them all! From shrimp and grits to mac n' cheese and steamed oysters, one thing is for certain- southern weddings certainly offer food like no other.
In short, southern weddings are extremely personal and extraordinary events in the lives of all involved. It's not just another party to go to - it's a life-changing memory in the making.

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Elizabeth Fowler, August 23, 2010 8:15 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I happen to be lucky enough to work for a beautiful southern plantation, which is also where I just recently had my wedding reception. Most of my family is from the north, so I was delighted to invite them all down to Virginia for a dose of some down home southern hospitality. It's nice to enjoy beautiful scenery and visit with loved ones, but you can't top the food! No boring beef or chicken! Bring on the crabcakes, ham bisquits and fried sweet potatoes!

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Kelly McWilliams, August 23, 2010 8:40 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

How much the Northerners and Westerners end up loving them.

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Lauren, August 23, 2010 9:09 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

Southern weddings give a southern gal the opportunity to show off everything we love about the south. It's not only a chance to enjoy the food, culture, and lovely (I mean humid) weather, but it's an opportunity to display in one day the essence of warmth, hospitality, family and friends. To me all those things represent best the place I call home, the south.

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Anna Clare Culp, August 24, 2010 12:18 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I LOVE Southern Weddings because of the feeling of intimacy there is in the air. Even if there are hundreds of guests, it still feels so special. Details are the biggest thing southern weddings have over them all, there are so many that don't go untouched during the planning process, so that even the smallest detail can make a guest feel so special and connect to the couple. And because of this fact, the LOVE that each guests feels from and for the couple acclimates on that special day to make it the PERFECT Southern Wedding! And so really the love at weddings you feel is why I LOVE SOUTHERN WEDDINGS, and isn't that what life is all about at the end of the day, love!

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smittengreta, August 24, 2010 3:16 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

the reception!!!!!!!! southern brides and their guests know how to throw down. and they enjoy doing so.

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Heidi@TrulyEngaging, August 24, 2010 2:51 pm   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

One thing I love about southern weddingsl... you'd get to hear "Ya'll" .. a lot. We live in Minnesota. Nobody says "Ya'll" And, the sweet, country, eclectic flair of a southern wedding is undeniably charming! *Love*

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Brittney Nelson, August 28, 2010 11:08 am   Yeehaw! Love this: Thumb up 0 reply

I am proud to be a strong southern woman, and to have grown up knowing and loving the roots that ground me and have taught me the meaning of family and how broad its definition is. Southern weddings reflect that; you will never feel out of place at a southern wedding, you will be treated like family! Southern weddings are not only the joining of two happy hearts, but the melding of two families and their traditions. They are joyous and playful, crazy and classy all at the same time. It's just how we do things down here—with a glass of sweet tea and a smile!

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